Reservations Only: How To Really Get “In”

Exclusive Access Pass

I’ll get straight to the point, this post is about getting into the most exclusive location ever: YOURSELF. While in Vegas, my friend and I made reservations for a day pool pass. There was a sense of ease as we walked in, and was escorted to a section that was reserved just for us. There were no lines, or any concerns of the hotel selling out the cabanas, because we knew that due to solidifying the reservations earlier, we would be able to fully enjoy the afternoon. Within two minutes we were escorted to our reserved space and was able to quickly enjoy the amenities and relaxation in the pool. What if we applied this example to how we treat ourselves, and more importantly, how we allow others to treat us?

“If you treat your life like luxury, that is exactly what you will attract”

What does having a “reserved” life even entail?! When I decided that I wanted to live a life of luxury, it was a firm confident choice that was inspired based on my profession in the luxury industry. I noticed that most people were interested in the craftsmanship, quality, and exclusivity of the product or experience. Due to that, the clients would pay a very high price to have an item that brings meaning and of course status. When I started the STGG podcast, and blog as well as the lifestyle portion ExquisitelyErica, it was all based on translating that same luxury feeling to every content I produce. I firmly believe that if you treat your life like luxury, that is exactly what you will attract. The goal is to display how to consistently add this theme to your everyday life in the most simple way. It all starts with INTENTION. When you entered this website, it was intentionally designed to feel like you are entering a beautiful 5 star exclusive resort, being pampered with quality blog posts, podcast episodes, and curated content. Just like the feeling you felt entering the site, wouldn't you want that overall feeling for your life?

"Having a high quality of life is truly a God given right, there is no difference with you than someone who owns a Million Dollar Yacht!"

They key to true success is really understanding who you are and fully knowing what you want. We sometimes can spend years trying to identify what that is, based on the changes we experience in life. I often ask myself what is that I want, and what am I willing to do to get it. Feeling unhappy can also be an identifier that informs us that we are not aligned with where we need to be. At times, there may be a high focus on trying to please others, whether it be family, work, or romantic partners, which can allow us to lose sight on what really ignites us. The feeling of discomfort becomes stronger, and this is when we know that we are ready for change. It can be overwhelming of exactly where to start, but take a moment to ponder these questions below:

1. What does a luxury life mean to you?

2. What did a luxury life mean to you as a child? Why?

3. What habits do you feel you need to contribute to a life of ease? What habits do you need to let go of?

4. Take note of your closest relationships. Do you feel safe, supported, and restored when you are around them?

5. What experiences would add excitement to your life? Do you incorporate them now? If not, can you start implementing them into your life this month?

You will notice that after answering these questions, additional thoughts may come. Allow them to enter, and slowly feel what may come up for you. Having a high quality of life is truly a God given right, there is no difference with you than someone who owns a million dollar yacht! The main difference is the mindset and belief system. Every day I challenge myself to see a side of hope and possibility, and although this may seem soft and simple, it is not. I am fully aware that I deserve a life of luxury, just like you, but the fighting question is: Do I believe it? The answer can vary based on the day honestly, but I truly fight to remind myself that I 100% do.

"You can always start over luxuriously"

Every day is a new start to creating the life we dreamed of, even when we don't always see it that way, it is. I'm learning to treat myself like a luxury store, only having the best within me and around me. Know that when you are embarking change, there will be a strong sense of fragility, because change is also healing. Limit who has access to you and your growth. That is something that should be taken very seriously as we don't need any breaking and entering in our luxury life destinations. Allow grace, and give yourself credit for what you have accomplished thus far. Be mindful that you reserve the right to change your mind, as long as it serves you in a healthy way. Forgive yourself and know that you did the best you can to get where you are now, but this isn't the end. You can always start over luxuriously, it is still possible to experience all that you want out of life. To truly master great experiences, learn to get "in" and honest with YOU. Life is about to get abundantly better, are you ready?

P.S- This is a reminder for me as it is for you, keep pushing ❤️